In Memory

Tim Blanco

Tim Blanco

Tim passed away on June 15, 2009, in South Pasadena.  A Mass was held for him at Holy Family Church on Tuesday, June 23.

I grew up with Tim on Indiana Avenue, going all the way back to kindergarten with Mrs. Tuesberg at Lincoln, I believe.  He attended Monterey Hills when it was opened in 4th or 5th grade, but then I saw him again at the Junior High and High School.  I remember thinking that he looked great at our 30th reunion in 2005, but I didn't have an opportunity to speak with him. 

Tim had earned his Ph.D. from USC and worked as a psychologist in Los Angeles. 

Please share your memories of Tim's life and any additional information you would like to share below.



 
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06/24/09 10:08 AM #1    

Lynn Kasser (Brown)


I was five years old when I met Tim. Friends all through grade school,Jr and High school.He was truly one of my best friends and I will miss him greatly. I hadn't talked to him for about two years,and I deeply regret that.
I have a million memories, all great ones,so its hard to pick one to write about. I could be sitting here writing all day. I send my Love to his family ,and tell them how deeply sorry I am and that he will be in my thoughts for the rest of my life.
Lynn Kasser Brown

06/27/09 12:56 PM #2    

Peter Nolten

Tim was kind. He and I were in the same homeroom in 7th grade. Tim was in the mix with J.C., Ed Bralley, Peter Park, Ann Reardon, Eric Sanchez, and myself. Our teacher was Ms. Brewer. Tim would remember the band of brothers and sisters that came together that first year of Jr. High. Tim's smile had laughter. To those who knew Tim well, you are blessed; I am fortunate to say that I remember him.

Peace Be With You

06/30/09 01:22 PM #3    

Kathryn Kincel (Kincel)

My friend, my friend! You have left us so soon. Just one more year and I thought we could have another conversation, maybe longer.
It all goes so unexpectedly. Tim wove in and out of our lives. My first memory was of him in junior high when he truely believed the world was coming to an end. He went from feeling too short ended to modeling in Europe! Not seeing him since our 20's, it was so nice again at the 30 year reunion only we didn't chat much. He was so quiet that weekend.
There's always next time. Only it hasn't happened yet.

I will miss you dear colleague and friend.
We'll drink a toast to you next year.
Good night Tim.

07/04/09 12:42 AM #4    

Mike Thurman

Posted for Chris Clarke:

As we all deal with day-to-day issues; faded memories are resurrected when someone that touched us leaves this world. Since learning of Tim Blanco's death, I am reminded of those other friends that contributed to my life in special and unique ways. Steve Rutkin was a pal and chum, but Tim Blanco was much more. He and I had a special friendship that sprung from swimming together both for the South Pasadena High School team and the San Marino Aquatics. I frequently would drive Tim to his home in Monterey Hills after swim practice and we'd ride together to San Marino High School for intramural activities.

He wrote a long message in my 1974 Copa De Oro, where he remarked about one of our particularly heinous capers. A group of us coming back from swim practice at San Marino High School were launching water balloons between our too cars. We were having a great time, but the San Marino Police Department didn't think it amusing at all. Three police cars pulled us over on Huntington Drive, and issues those lovely yellow Notice To Appear forms to each and every water balloon war participant. Appearing Municipal Court in Pasadena was not much fun either. However, the judge was amused.

During the time I knew Tim, he proved himself a sensitive and caring person. He could see through all of my complicated social defense layers. In the '74 annual he said I was "crazy and neat." He was in fact a soul mate and provided solace in a turbulent time of my life. When I had an opportunity to see him at the 2005 reunion, my heart was reminded of his kindness simply by the tenor of his gaze. As a healthcare clinician he was able to use that unique ability to reach out to others in distress. I will always cherish the person I knew. God Bless you Tim.

Your friend Christopher Clarke

07/08/09 08:15 PM #5    

Jenete (Jae) Etchart

It has been since High School that I have seen or talk to Tim, but what I remember most of Tim was swimming at his house one afternoon. There were about five of us just hanging out and having fun, Tim turned me onto the famous peanut butter banana honey sandwich. That was the best sandwich I have evered had after swimming. To this day, I still talk about that sandwich and it still taste just as good. Tim was a very sensitive and fun guy. I am so sorry to hear he has left us so soon.

08/10/09 07:01 PM #6    

Sally Horan ('74) (Hanson)

Sally Horan Hanson ('74)

Tim and I ran into each other while attending Cal Poly SLO and became great friends. Although I was a year older, he was a great "big brother". While going to parties with him at his fraternity, he kept the evil eye over me and wanted to protect me from his frat brothers. He was so kind, and what a laugh he had.... we laughed a lot. I was saddened this past Saturday at our 35th to hear of his passing. My heart goes out to his family.

08/29/09 03:19 PM #7    

Marja "Sista Asia" Wildenboer

OH MY GOD...NOT TIM I HAVE WONDERFUL MEMORIES OF HIM... AFTER MY DIVORCE TIM AND I RAN IN TO EACH OTHER AND STARTED TO DATE WHEN HE CAME BACK FROM MILAN WHERE HE WAS MODELING... HE WAS HE NICEST AND SUCH A GENTLEMEN HE HELP ME HEAL FROM THE DIVORCE AND REALLY GAVE ME HOPE. TIM IN SCHOOL WAS SHY AND I ALWAYS TOLD HIM THAT I HAD A CRUSH O HIM BUT WE NEVER REALLY GOT TO KNOW EACH OTHER TILL AFTER WE GOT OUT OF SCHOOL. MY MOTHER WAS VERY FOND OF TIM AND ALWAYS INVITED HIM FOR DINNER. HE WILL BE MISSED... R I P MY DEAR FRIEND...

07/10/13 09:36 PM #8    

Sandy Goodpasture (Serva)

I made Tim's poster for whatever the hell it was - the person who did assembly in junior high - ninth grade. And he won.

The poster was: Tim Blanco, Superstar, although the lettering did not match up to the artwork according to someone that will remain nameless. YOU CRITIC.But you were right.

I think I might have won a second prize or something.

Anyway, Tim was a terrible announcer for our assemblies. He really was all thumbs. But we loved him anyway.

I am so impressed with his news of his accomplishments, his drive, and his successes. He was a great guy. A really great guy. Wow. What a loss.


03/26/15 10:05 PM #9    

Christopher Clarke

One of the kindest classmates I knew.  We connected on swim team and found common interests and friendship. 


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